Saturday, August 3, 2019

Photo Diary: Seaport Brewery Tour (BEDA Day 3)

A few weeks ago, our friends Kristen and Jon came up to Boston from NJ for a visit! It was Jon's first time in Boston so we thought it'd be fun to do a bit of a brewery tour around the Seaport. We had a fantastic day walking about, shared lots of good food, drinks, and lots and lots of laughter, and capped it all off with getting stuck in the middle of a thunderstorm. 😂 Here's some photos from that day back in June! Can't wait til we get to see them again. 💖





















Friday, August 2, 2019

Staycation Wish List (BEDA Day 2)

It's my first official day of vacation! 


I was lucky enough to find some time before the start of the new school year to disconnect from work and I currently have *no plans* (besides a race that I'm signed up for tomorrow, but other than that NO PLANS!). I am very excited to have a staycation, and also a little nervous because I tend to spiral mentally when I have nothing on my plate to accomplish. I thought it might be good to make some really loose plans for myself throughout the week so I have a reason to stay occupied.

I considered naming this post "Vacation Goals" or "Vacation To-Dos" but for some reason that felt way too tasky and filled with pressure. I'm generally a goals-oriented person and like to check things off of a list as I complete them, but given my current mental state and my severe need to take the pressure off of myself, I thought giving myself a to-do list might feel too overwhelming for me at the moment. However, framing these as a "Wish List", or things I would like to get done but won't beat myself up about, might make me feel less pressured and more motivated to get them done. So, without further adieu, here is my wish list for my staycation!

1. Get a haircut: It's been - no joke - an entire YEAR since I've cut my hair and it is in desperate need for a snip.
2. Get my new glasses: I ordered them a few weeks ago and I'm hoping they're ready soon!
3. Get an oil change for my car: Something that is, again, long overdue.
4. Finish the hat I'm knitting: It's my first ever knitted hat project and it's been lovely to create something with my hands again!
5. Journal daily in the mornings: I've heard about the benefits of doing morning pages for years and I've always been intrigued. I'd thought I'd try this out for myself during these 10 days I have off.
6. Do a beach day: I haven't done a proper beach day all summer, and I definitely want to try and fit one in this week.
7. Exercise daily: I will have my regular training runs I will need to complete throughout the week for Newport, but on my off days I want to make an honest effort to do yoga, weights, or a minimum 30 minute walk
8. Finish two books: Theoretically I can finish MANY more, but I'm going to set my goal at two. I think that will feel totally manageable this week and keep in my theme of a low-pressure approach to life and give my mind a break.
9. Finally beat Let's Go Pikachu!: I've been halfway through this game on the Switch for MONTHS because I've been putting other hobbies ahead of it. I'd like to prioritize this game a bit and see if I can get a good chunk of the way through it, and potentially beat it! :)

And I think that's where I'm going to stop assigning myself things (though I am REALLY tempted to add more things to the list)! Hopefully this vacation will be a really restorative one and I will come out feeling so much better mentally and emotionally. I feel like I've just been neglecting myself for so long and I really need to stop doing that. I'm hoping that this week will help me relearn to focus on myself and I can bring these good practices into the new academic year.

Thursday, August 1, 2019

July 2019 Reading Wrap Up! (BEDA Day 1)

Happy August, y'all! 
And let's hope that it is, indeed, a happy August.

I thought I'd kick off BEDA with a quick reading wrap up from July. I mentioned in my blog post on Monday about how my mental health has really made me not want to be in front of a camera right now, and although I kind of forced myself to vlog during various readathons in August, I really don't feel well enough to watch through that footage right now. So why not share what I've been reading through a blog post!

July was really action packed and I found it really hard to concentrate on the books I was reading (maybe a precursor to my current mental state tbh) but I actually read quite a few books that I absolutely LOVED and one or two that will likely end up on my 2019 favorites list!

My Brother's Husband, vol. 1 by Gengoroah Tegame
Physical copy, 5/5
352 pages
Challenge completed: A book set in Asia

Providence by Caroline Kepnes
Physical copy, 3/5
366 pages
Challenge completed: A book with a location in the title

The Princess and the Fangirl by Ashley Poston
Physical copy, 3/5
316 pages

Educated by Tara Westover
Physical copy, 4/5
352 pages

Recursion by Blake Crouch
Physical copy, 5/5
336 pages

American Psycho by Bret Easton Ellis
Physical copy, 2/5
399 pages
Challenge completed: A book with a face on the cover

Lucky Few by Kathryn Ormsbee
Physical copy, 3/5
368 pages
Challenge completed: A book with your initials on the cover

Hot Dog Girl by Jennifer Dugan
Physical copy, 4/5
309 pages

Bloom by Kevin Panetta
Physical copy, 5/5
368 pages

Heartstopper, vol. 2 by Alice Oseman
Physical copy, 5/5
315 pages


TOTALS FOR JULY

Books completed: 10
Pages read: 3,482
2019 Challenges Completed: 4
10 Book TBR #3 Books Completed: 2

TOTALS FOR 2019

Books completed: 82/150
Pages read: 27,360
2019 challenges complete: 38/50

I think for August I'm really going to be taking a more laissez-faire approach to my reading - what will get read will get read, and what won't, won't. I am doing the N.E.W.T.s and another round of my BOTM month, but I'm really trying to take all forms of pressure off me in the coming months! I'm already feeling some of the positive effect of taking the pressure off myself and letting go of control of things that usually consume my mind with worry. I'm really not the kind of person that can easily do this but I think my mental state right now has been a really huge wake up call and hopefully I can make some changes to the way I approach life throughout this season of seeing myself in a new light.